Valentine’s Day - Unconventional or Hallmark?
I’ve been reading quite a bit on the upcoming Valentine’s holiday and frankly I’m surprised at just how many people say they actually opt for an unconventional more creative approach to the day dedicated to lovers.
Doesn’t that only happen in the movies?
Is it a situation where people would plan the holiday in an unconventional way if they could but tend to become more lazy as the actual day approaches and cave in to the Hallmark version?
Honestly, I’m happy and deeply touched that my husband takes the time to pick out a card that shows he actually read through them to find the perfect one and makes a small purchase to let me know that he remembered. He’s great that way!
I’ve even been lucky enough to have married a man that can actually remember our wedding anniversary. A BIG plus!
Deep down though, I’d love nothing more than being whisked away for a romantic weekend - preferably on the beach and someplace warm. I’d love nothing more than a break away from Indiana winters. But realistically, I don’t expect it!
So what I’d like to know is what people actually expect for Valentine’s versus what they would accept.
Realistically, what do you think you’ll be doing for your lover this Valentine’s Day?
Tags: Dating, Holidays, romance, Valentines-DayRelated Stories
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2 opinions for Valentine’s Day - Unconventional or Hallmark?
Emily
Jan 30, 2007 at 2:19 pm
I’m a writer preparing a fun story on dating for the 2008 Old Farmer’s Almanac. Can you please send me your memorable first date stories?… Disasters or successes!
Caterina Christakos
Jan 31, 2007 at 10:03 pm
Here are some of the best Valentine’s Day dates that I have been on or heard of:
1) Romantic boat ride on our local lake
2) Dinner at the Breakers Hotel then a romantic walk on their private beach
3) Helicopter tour of the Grand Canyon followed by a champagne brunch on the river
4)Moonlight serenade under my apartment window
5) A card trick invented just for me that told the story of how we met
6) Home cooked meal followed by an hour long massage
There are many ways of being creative. Think outside of that candy box.
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