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Tip 9: Practice Carte Blanche

by Sasha Manuel on August 4th, 2006

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Tip 9: Practice Carte Blanche

Carte Blanche n unrestricted power to act at one’s own discretion

I’m well aware of the importance that men put on their own space, i.e. poker night, sports, drinks at the pub with the boys, couch time. You guys need us women to respect that.

Personally, I don’t mind it. I’d offer to come check it out one time but I certainly won’t make a habit out of it cuz I do have my own set of interests.

Having said that, I want you to respect the woman’s independece, too. Because, admit it or not, hearing your girlfriend or a girl you’re currently seeing make plans that doesn’t include you creates a certain reaction that may just be called jealousy. It’s really quite normal and it’s something you can actually deal with or learn to get over.

This is when having learned to live your life alone pays off. You already have that inner confidence and self-sufficiency that you don’t depend on her presence to make your relationship with her secure.

Besides, do you really like a clingy girl around? That’s the sort of person you’ll be creating if you don’t have the “live and let live” attitude.

If you already know that you have these traits, you will notice that women will find themselves drawn to you. Reason being that there are quite a few men who are like you and we don’t particularly find clingy men attractive, too.

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