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Tip 1: Be Assertive

by Sasha Manuel on July 27th, 2006

10 Tips: Becoming the Man’s Man

Tip 1: Be Assertive

I’ve noticed that a lot of guys lack this trait. Either that or they come off as arrogant instead. It’s quite disheartening, really. If you grew up in the kind of culture we have here in my country, you’ll find that a lot of men are kinda’ like highschool boys when it comes to dating and relationships.

What causes men to act the opposite? Fear, perhaps? They don’t wish to risk their egos so it’s either they toy with the girl till they’ve found some sort of security or clam up.

I’m no man-hater. Really. I’m not. That’s why I want to help out and provide some tips on how you can be the kind of man women go for.

How can you be assertive then? Well, it’s knowing what you want and going after it. You’ve got to be the kind of man who wouldn’t hesitate to start a conversation with a girl, who you happen to see in the bookshop or cafe or the one who passes you occasionally on your jog route. You can also observe or consult with a guy friend whom you think is good with women. He just may give you a tip or two.

Man, we don’t bite you know. If you happen to encounter someone who does, ignore her and move on. She’s not worth it anyway.

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