Thrill of the Chase
Hey, ladies!
I know how tempting it is to grab that opportunity to hook up with that man you’ve been eyeing but you have got to let him chase you. This somewhat equates to retaining some sort of mystery around you. I know it sounds so cliché and all but it how nature works. Men are born hunters.
A good tip on how to do this: give that guy one small look that resonates a “maybe”. Make that look give out a thousand of opportunities but holds back the true answer to the question, “do I like you?”. Men will answer to it. If they won’t, at least, you know then that he’s not interested in you and you wouldn’t have wasted (or humiliated?) yourself in front of him.
This is part of the attraction — a test if you may — you will see if the man is indeed attracted to you and your, er, mystique. The interest will allow him to overcome is reservations or fear of rejection, know what I mean?
It’s also good to highlight that it’s a great feeling when a man chases after you — not in jest, of course, but just to solidify his interest.
Before I go, ladies, I hope you won’t use this to toy with a man’s feelings, ok? It’s not nice. ;)
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1 opinion for Thrill of the Chase
Paul H
Feb 16, 2007 at 7:34 pm
I don’t agree. If you’re suggesting women might not want to make their interest known too early, I can go along with that.
However, deliberately obscuring that you’re interested just makes it difficult. How is a guy supposed to know the difference between that and a simple expression of disinterest? I personally wouldn’t bother chasing in this situation.
Also, the idea of “born hunters” is just a stereotype.
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