The Cheating Boyfriend
Yes. We’re going to talk about the Cheating Boyfriend.
How do you deal with a cheating boyfriend?
I’m really curious. I’ve never experienced it, though, I only did have one serious relationship and thank God he didn’t cheat. I think. Hehehe. Well, if he did I never found out! Alright. Alright. I’ll play it nice. As far as I know, he didn’t cheat on me. There you go. ;)
Anyway, what I did experience was being in situations wherein I’d encounter guys who cheated on their girlfriends. But since this is a family friendly blog, that’s all I’m going to disclose. Ha. Kidding. Hahaha.
Actually, I have been observing their actions and I did try to interrogate these guys on why they do cheat. Obviously, I’m still in the dark when it comes to this topic but I sort of got the idea why they cheat but I have nothing to support this theory.
- Guy #1 - The Goat
He felt stifled by the relationship that’s why he cheated so he can easily get out his current relationship without really fearing being alone. He needed a scapegoat, perhaps? Tsssch.
- Guy #2 - The Player
He rises up to the challenge. The ultimate adventurer. It is a game to him, after all. But he’s utterly insecure. He needs to quantify his manhood. Bleh.
- Guy #3 - The Maniac
He’s not getting satisfaction in their sex life [if he has any at all] so he searches for the occasional romp. Either he’s depressed with the performance or reception from his girlfriend. Or perhaps he’s searching for the realisation of fantasies. Be careful of this one. Hahaha.
All I can say, No guy is innocent. He’s guilty. He can try blaming it on problems or women coming on to them but they’re still guilty of engaging in the act. I feel sad for the women who let these guys get away with what they’ve done. And I pity the one who ends up with them. I can only hope that they can effect change on them.
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6 opinions for The Cheating Boyfriend
Grins
Apr 24, 2006 at 6:30 pm
Like you I haven’t had to deal with it (not that I know of) but I have talked to men that have cheated before and pretty much agree with your scenerios. Most of them falling into the goat category. By the way, lets not let women off the hook on cheating. I had a friend that I had to stop spending time with because I couldn’t be laugh with her about her behavior towards her fiance (she was cheating worse than any man I’ve known).
Sasha Manuel
Apr 25, 2006 at 11:37 am
Either we’re totally clueless or we were extremely fortunate, huh? :)
OMG. I still can’t believe how women can actually do it. I’ve never really met anyone who has or is capable of such an act. I understand why you chose to distance yourself from that girl.
no
Jul 11, 2006 at 8:35 am
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call him and let him know that everyone knows he’s a cheater.
dee
Aug 1, 2007 at 10:18 am
he said he doesnt have any1 to talk to abt his problems, bcoz i was too busy partying everyday with my friends, so he called this bitch (who adores him like crz) to come to his house to talk. and *you can guess what happen next.
my friends and even the bitch told me what happenned between my bf n the bitch, i was so stupid fr not trusting them, my bf kept denying it n he was friggin mad cuz i didnt believe him at 1st, then after 4 months (after all so-called-rumours) he finally confessed tht he did cheatd on me. it was totally embarassing, he kept saying sorry and everything blabla love me and stuff.
so what do u think ?
WWYD: He said he didn’t then ate his words
Aug 2, 2007 at 2:30 pm
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Sasha Manuel
Aug 2, 2007 at 2:33 pm
Dee, for my thoughts on your situation, read this:
http://www.datingdames.com/wwyd-he-said-he-didnt-then-ate-his-words/
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