Sex, Lies, Video Tapes and Skeletons
A friend of mine approached me recently, concerned that her boyfriend was wanting to spice things up in the bedroom a bit *wink wink*. The spice he wanted to ad was intimate digital pictures and videos.
We’ve all seen what can happen with the videos that leak into the mainstream from the closets of Celebrities - and while you may not be a celebrity, you’ve got just as big a risk of ending up in a very uncomfortable position.
All it takes is one person becoming angry with another and doing something they would likely regret later - or even the thought of a houseguest uncovering suck intimate keepsakes is feasible. I just don’t think anyone could be trusted THAT much.
I’m a big believer in fantasies - sometimes some fantasies are meant to remain just that.
If a couple REALLY wants to engage in such things, I told my friend she might consider getting a fire safe with two padlocks with two keys. That way it takes both of them to unlock the safe.
Lastly, if you’re not comfortable with someone seeing the images of video, it’s probably the best bet not to create them to begin with.
Do you think anything like this is ever really kept private? Or is it too big a risk?
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1 opinion for Sex, Lies, Video Tapes and Skeletons
marye
Feb 29, 2008 at 8:04 pm
You can put videos on security coded discs that are quite safe.
;)
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