MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation
According to Christian Carter:
A man has a clear idea of what he wants from a woman…And I don’t mean just sex. I know, it might be hard to believe, but if you’re out on a date with a man, he already has an idea of what he wants from you. And if you don’t know HOW to find this out, and you just sit there looking at him, flirting, or trying things you think will make him want you, it just won’t help! If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you’ll probably screw it up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.
I have a very difficult time believing this one, at least to the letter. I think everyone has a clear idea of what their perfect partner would be like. As much as I believe men are visual creatures and will determine within the first few moments of the initial date, whether there will be a second date or not, I don’t believe they can sum up everyone that’s behind that initial attraction so quickly.
If that were the case, wouldn’t it take far less time for relationships to end than several months or years?
Anyone have an opinion on this one?
Any advice on how women should act in various situations?
Next, this brings up an interesting topic that I saw on a talk show the other day.
Do men truly think about sex every 30 seconds? (I believe that’s the statistic)
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6 opinions for MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing What To Do In Each Type Of Situation
curly
Nov 13, 2006 at 1:49 pm
There’s no generic rulebook on how to act in every single situation. You need to be yourself and trust that if he is right for you, things will work out. Don’t worry about behaving in the “right” way. The only right way is the way that works for you!
Sasha Manuel
Nov 13, 2006 at 2:40 pm
Do men truly think about sex every 30 seconds?
I can’t really claim it to be exact but I reckon it’s roughly close enough. Any man care enough to make a rebuttal? LOL.
John
Nov 14, 2006 at 9:49 pm
Do men truly think about sex every 30 seconds?
I can’t really claim it to be exact but I reckon it’s roughly close enough. Any man care enough to make a rebuttal? LOL. Close enough. Now your turn… how often do women truly think about sex?
http://www.moderndatingsite.com
Gayla McCord
Nov 17, 2006 at 11:32 am
Does the fact that it took me three days to respond to your comment give you any clue as to how often?
Frankly, I think about it when I have time to think about the less than practical stuff. Other than that, my mind is always on the responsible stuff first.
John
Nov 17, 2006 at 2:16 pm
Gayla,
Does the fact that it took me three days to respond to your comment give you any clue as to how often?
I’m crushed. I don’t think this is going to work… we fight all the time. :)
Sasha Manuel
Nov 17, 2006 at 11:08 pm
I’m with Gayla on this. :)
I reckon sex isn’t something I think about as loosely as me thinking about getting my nails done. It’s a lot more important that, however, there are other things going on in my life that weigh a lot, lot more.
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