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Mistake #8 - Trying To “Convince” Him To Like You Or Love You

by Gayla McCord on November 6th, 2006

Christian Carter shines a rather strong and painful light on one of the biggest - Hugest mistakes women make.

What do most women do when they meet a man that they REALLY like… but he’s just not that interested or isn’t as serious?  Right! They try to “convince” the man to feel differently.  Well, I have news for you…YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A MAN “FEELS” WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!  Never, ever, ever.  You cannot convince a man to feel differently about you with “logic and reasoning”.  Think about it. If a man doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that by being “reasonable” with him? 

Ladies!  Seriously, if you have to try and convince someone to like you or fall in love with you, run!  Run as fast as you can, AWAY - you’ll only get hurt more and more and more.

The one slight sting of rejection is hard enough to withstand, but to keep going back for more?  That’s just Wrong!

And you’ll never win them over with sex!  Sex is just sex to men.  It’s not that deep emotional connection with someone that it is to women.

If the attraction isn’t there, it cannot, I repeat - CANNOT be forced!

I know some of you are reading this shaking your head, chin dropped and knowing I am SO talking about you!  Aren’t you?

Save yourself, save your heart, don’t try to push it!

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1 opinion for Mistake #8 - Trying To “Convince” Him To Like You Or Love You

  • Sham
    Nov 16, 2006 at 9:51 pm

    Hi,
    This is just my 2 cents :-)

    I feel that sometimes, women keep asking the question “why”. “Why doesn’t he have feelings for me? I am smart, attractive, caring etc “.

    Also, Some guys are scared of commitment. So in order to avoid such matter, they resort to-”I don’t have any feelings for you”. So, How do you actually differenciate between he doesn’t “REALLY” like you or he is scared of commitment or getting hurt?

    Sham
    http://enhancelifethinktank.blogspot.com/

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