Misreading The Important “Signals” That Men Send
We’re now up to mistake #5 - Misreading The Important “Signals” That Men Send
Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves. Most women don’t pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are. The signals men send have 4 main levels - According to Christian Carter:
1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction
2) Emotional: Whether or not he’s “emotionally available”
3) Physical: If he’s attracted to you… and for what reasons
4) Love State: If he’s open to building and growing a relationship in the futureThe funny thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident. That’s great news to women… Men can’t help it! You need to learn to recognize these signals to get anywhere serious with a man.
If I had a dime for every time I was attracted to a man that was NOT emotionally available, I’d likley be a very wealthy woman.
How many times have you found yourself falling for someone that was either just out of a realtionship or just going through a divorce? Did you ever stop to think that you may be nothing more than the rebound girl?
At one point in time, I’d become SO good at being the rebound girl, I actually thought of turning it into a career. The knack I had for helping men discover what they wanted out of life and love (even though it was NOT me) was almost scary.
I can’t stress enough to my personal friends and now to the readers here, that before pursuing a relationship, make sure the person is truly ready. Being divorced (not seperated) for at least a year is a good start.
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1 opinion for Misreading The Important “Signals” That Men Send
todd
Oct 31, 2006 at 5:28 pm
You should write an article on being a rebound girl. Maybe you already have.
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