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Love or Infatuation

by Gayla McCord on February 2nd, 2006

Throughout the next several weeks I will be revisiting a classic article that I obtained several years ago. I have no idea who the author is or where it came from - only that it was received via a relationship support group, and at that time it had been copied so many times that you could tell it was a well worn and used resource. The article has become a bit outdated with statistics and other bits of information but the basis is still very strong.

It was through this article that I was able to recognize some things about me that I had failed to recognize and that I truly needed to work on rather than expecting anyone to accept those “flaws” when trying to make a relationship work.

The various topics I’ll be touching on are:

* Definitions of Love
- simple infatuation
- romantic infatuation
- sex interest
- real love

* Varied Facts about Love and Infatuation
* Fourteen Clues of Love

CLUE 1. What Is The Major Attraction?
CLUE 2. How Many Factors Attract?
CLUE 3. How Did It Start?
CLUE 4. How Consistent Is Your Level Of Interest?
CLUE 5. How Does It Affect Your Personality?
CLUE 6. How and when does it end?
CLUE 7. How Do You See Each Other?
- Is Love Blind?
CLUE 8. How Do Others View You Two?
CLUE 9. What Does Distance Do?
CLUE 10. How Do Quarrels Affect the Romance?
- Constructive Quarreling
CLUE 11. How Do You Feel about and Refer to Your Relationship?
CLUE 12. Are You Selfish or Selfless?
- Selfish Sex
- Commitment - a Law of Life
CLUE 13. What Is Your Overall Attitude?
CLUE 14. Are You Jealous?
Infatuation Can Grow into Love
* Problems Marriages Face Today

As I address and touch on each of the above listed topics, I hope many of you will feel comfortable in chiming in and sharing your own experiences with each one and how that topic in particular may affect your life.

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