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Lines are there for a Reason

by Sasha Manuel on February 22nd, 2008

I’m talking in terms of exclusive dating, of relationships.

For couples, there are lines that are either expected to exist or intentionally drawn. These lines are applicable to any relationship outside your relationship, ones that either directly or indirectly affects. There are reasons why they’re there:

For Safety
The line is set to take active steps to protect oneself, as a partner in a relationship. Or it’s drawn to protect the relationship itself.

For Clarity
Think parameters. It sets the limits and expectations, which will help the couple reach a better understanding of each other’s roles.

For Security
The knowledge of the line’s existence will cradle each partner into the belief which will allow them to be comfortable and build on the trust. Companionship in itself should provide the feeling of security, however, lines are drawn to secure responsible actions from the partners.

The lines are set to differentiate certain areas of the relationship, i.e. girls’ night out or poker night. If you choose to cross the line, you do it on your own risk. If we use another illustration, it can be anything that can be classified as pet peeves or deal breakers, i.e. girlfriends talking directly to your man (establishing closeness, singling him out to the point wherein they share private jokes you’re not aware of). Of course, I’m talking about consequences of crossing the said line. These lines defines the exclusivity factor of a relationship.

Oh, here’s a good example: lines are drawn upon marriage. A much bigger line, if I may add. There are lines wherein single women cannot cross when it comes to dealing with married men. Though, sometimes, the bigger the line, the bigger the temptation to cross it. Quite silly, huh?

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