Is it cheating?
This morning, several viewers asked questions via email of The Today Show and their own resident relationship experts. Some of the questions had me wondering just how people in general feel and thought they were worth asking here on Dating Dames.
Question:
When it comes to strip clubs, is there ever a time when it’s not considered cheating for a man (or woman) to visit them when he’s (she’s) involved in a serious relationship or married?
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4 opinions for Is it cheating?
vaiflaht
Mar 24, 2006 at 10:05 am
Yes, in my opinion it is cheating. When my husband goes to a strip club for business I am repulsed by him. I don’t know what to do about it. He says that he has to go “to please his client -that pays our bills…” I say if he were a real man he would stand up for our family values and tell them so. So what does that leave me with, money? Well if I wanted to marry money, I would have.
MattV
Mar 25, 2006 at 11:18 pm
I don’t think it’s cheating, at all. It’s just a strip club; it’s not visiting a prostitute.
SO, would looking at Playboy or watching a porn movie be considered cheating?
Jeremy Wright
Mar 26, 2006 at 8:09 am
I’d only *not* consider it cheating if the wife or girlfriend went along, because she *wanted* to go along and if she had fun the *whole* time.
Personally I wouldn’t be comfortable with it though.
Angela
Mar 28, 2006 at 2:35 pm
As someone mentioned above, just looking at women is cheating?
I understand at strip clubs clothes are being taken off, but strip clubs have rules of hands off as well, therefore, only if the guys or woman buys services elsewhere for whatever then that is taking it too far.
I would have no issues with my boyfriend going to a strip club for whatever, which is usually bachelor parties, cause he is coming home to me and he has told me it frustrates him more than anything.
As long as the couple has talked about it and there are no trust issues then there is no problem, but if it has been talked about and issues have been brought up, but the person keeps going then there are problems…I still don’t think I’d call it cheating…but there are problems.
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